Common life events can reveal a lot about the way you and your spouse are wired. The issues Lisa and I faced as an engaged couple picking out tuxes for our wedding played out the same way 38 years later as we shopped for and purchased our first hot tub. Lisa and I talk about how couples are wired differently, how to respect each other's patterns of decision-making, and how to work together even when you look at things from a different perspective. I get into the "fight, flight, fallen" tendencies of conflict and explain how a therapist is helping me become a little healthier in the way I respond to conflict in my own marriage. Our hope is that your hearing a little bit about our story can help you and your spouse discuss similar issues in your marriage.
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