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Apr 12Liked by Gary Thomas

This is exactly what I needed to hear! I know by practicing this I will turn around my attitude for the better and more important love my husband better!! Thank you!

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Such a beautiful reminder... our heart follows our actions so many times. Thanks for writing!

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Apr 13Liked by Gary Thomas

Such a profound shift in how we love - thank you for sharing!

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Apr 12Liked by Gary Thomas

Very encouraging post today. I also think of this verse as I continue to serve my husband without reward here on earth…Galatians 6:9 NIV. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

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Apr 13Liked by Gary Thomas

I found out the same thing when I took care of my husband during the last years of his life. I found out that it was how I treated him rather than how he treated me that gave me the satisfaction that I had always been searching for. I think about all that a lot. I just wish I had known that years ago .

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Apr 13Liked by Gary Thomas

I have found this to be true in my own marriage. Praise God for this wisdom - we are freed from our own selfish desires when we serve. (It is certainly not instantaneous)

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Remember the story of the Little Prince

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